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The generation before mine had a phrase, "playing the field." It made sense then and makes sense now.Lots of people have use the term dating and boyfriend/girlfriend as being the same.It’s like when there’s a massive sale and you try everything on and then don’t know what you like anymore. “Then I think out of respect for yourself and the men, you should tell the others you’re not interested.” In fact, communication is key because people have different expectations when it comes to dating and what is ok for one person might be very wrong for another.Sometimes too much choice is paralysing,” says Cassie, 24. If you’re upfront and clear about where you’re at - perhaps you’re not ready to commit yet and are just having fun - it can save a lot of heartache down the track.(Although, I guess she broke for Sunday, so there was that.)I don't know if it's because of Cameron Crowe movies or disease panic or protracted adolescence, but my generation believed that when you really liked somebody, you should like them solely and exclusively, even obsessively. But for those of us still single, relad ideas about monogamy and the facility of the Internet have produced a new golden age of slutty aunts.If a guy gave you a mix CD of Radiohead songs because it felt like giving you "a pint of his own blood," and then he gave girl a pint of his own blood, it sort of cheapens the gesture. I know guys who date multiple women like they're filling out an elimination bracket, and I know guys who date multiple women because they get easily bored by one set of nipples.Going out with somebody else the next day would therefore be cheating, a cruel thing to do to your boyfriend on the all-important 24-hour anniversary.
When I first started online dating, I had this notion that dating more than one person simultaneously would somehow be insincere. There were times where I would end up talking to a few girls at once but this was always accidental.
More and more people I know prefer dating a bunch of people to one; you can be suspended in a kind of single-but-not animation that used to be reserved for old bachelors of indeterminate sexual orientation, and not be considered a jerky health risk.
But, at the same time, you aren't a Branch Davidian cult leader and you can't treat the world like a Waco sex compound, stocked with unstable teen runaways.
But some people think of dating as simply going out with someone you are romantically interested in, but there is no commitment of exclusivity made, nor is there any guarantee that a such a commitment will ever be made; therefore, some people think that there is no problem with dating multiple people at the same time.
In fact, some would argue that you should NOT be exclusive while dating; dating is supposed to help I’m not in a committed relationship, but I am dating someone (nothing physical).
Another guy has asked me on a date, which I accepted.